Sunday, July 28, 2013

Am I A Fireman Yet? (This is beautiful)

If you "tear up" go ahead, who's watching?





In Calgary, Alberta, a 26-year-old mother stared down at her 6 year old son, who was dying of terminal leukaemia.

Although her heart was filled with sadness, she also had a strong feeling of determination. Like any parent, she wanted her son to grow up & fulfil all his dreams. Now that was no longer possible.. The leukaemia would see to that. But she still wanted her son's dream to come true.

She took her son' s hand and asked, 'Billy, did you ever think about what you wanted to be once you grew up?  Did you ever dream and wish what you would do with your life?'

Mommy, 'I always wanted to be a fireman when I grew up.'

Mom smiled back and said, 'Let's see if we can make your wish come true.'

Later that day she went to her local fire Department in Calgary, where she met Fireman Bob, who had a heart as big as Alberta..

She explained her son's final wish and asked if it might be possible to give her 6 year-old son a ride around the block on a fire engine. Fireman Bob said, 'Look, we can do better than that. If you'll have your son ready at seven o'clock Wednesday morning, we'll make him an honorary Fireman for the whole day.  He can come down to the fire station, eat with us, go out on all the fire calls, the whole nine yards!

And if you'll give us his sizes, we'll get a real fire uniform for him, with a real fire hat - not a toy - one-with the emblem of the Calgary Fire Department on it, and a yellow slicker like we wear and rubber boots.'

'They're all manufactured right here in Calgary, so we can get them fast.'


 


Three days later Fireman Bob picked up Billy, dressed him in his uniform and escorted him from his hospital bed to the waiting hook and ladder truck.

Billy got to sit on the back of the truck And help steer it back to the fire station. He was in heaven. There were three fire calls in Calgary that day and Billy got to go out on all three calls.

He rode in the different fire engines, the Paramedic's' van, and even the fire chief's car.

He was also videotaped for the local news program.

Having his dream come true, with all the love and attention that was lavished upon him, so deeply touched Billy, that he lived three months longer than any doctor thought possible.

One night all of his vital signs began to drop dramatically and the head nurse, who believed in the hospice concept - that no one should die alone, began to call the family members to the hospital..

Then she remembered the day Billy had spent as a Fireman, so she called the Fire Chief and asked if it would be possible to send a fireman in uniform to the hospital to be with Billy as he made his transition.

The chief replied, 'We can do better than that. we'll be there in five minutes.. Will you please do me a favour?

When you hear the sirens screaming and see the lights flashing, will you announce over the PA system that there is not a fire?'

'It's the department coming to see one of its finest members one more time. And will you open the window to his room?'

About five minutes later a hook and ladder truck arrived at the hospital and extended its ladder up to Billy's third floor open window --- 16 fire-fighters climbed up the ladder into Billy's room.

With his mother's permission, they hugged him and held him and told him how much they LOVED him. With his dying breath, Billy looked up at the fire chief and said,

'Chief, am I really a fireman now?'

'Billy, you are, and the Head Chief, Jesus, is holding your hand,' the chief said.

With those words, Billy smiled and said, 'I know, He's been holding my hand all day, and the angels have been singing..'

He closed his eyes one last time.

 

This is a true story.


Saturday, July 7, 2012

PAID IN FULL

Paid in full  by Shirley Caesar

My  boy came into the kitchen, while I was fixing dinner. He handed me a piece of paper, on which he’d been writing, and asked me to read it. After wiping my hands on my apron, I read the paper. This is what it said:

  • for mowing the grass - $5
  • for making my bed - $1
  • for going to the shop – 50c
  • for playing with baby brother, while you were shopping – 25c
  • for taking out the rubbish - $1
  • for getting a good school report - $5
  • for raking up the Yard - $2.
Well, I looked at him, standing there expectantly, and a thousand memories flashed though my mind. So, I picked up the paper, turned it over, and wrote:

  • for the 9 months I carried you, growing inside me – no charge
  • for the nights I sat up with you, nursed you, prayed for you – no charge
  • for the time and the tears, and the cost through the years – no charge
  • for the nights filled with dread, and the worries ahead – no charge
  • for advice knowledge, and the cost of your college – no charge
  • for the toys, food, and clothes, and wiping your nose – no charge
  • my son, when you add it all up, the full costs of my love is – no charge.

When he finished reading he had great big tears in his eyes. He looked up at me and said “Mum, I sure do love you”. Then he took a pen and, in great big letters, wrote “Paid in full” on his paper.

Monday, February 14, 2011

VALENTINES DAY SPECIAL!


Well it’s Valentines Day today, which incidentally explains why Anita may have been cold with me this morning as I had forgotten until I came into work and checked Facebook! And so plan B kicks in – to all the guys who need a hand I have here a fine collection of quotes about love and marriage…say as many as you can as fast you can to your woman! Good luck ;)


Inspirational quote of the day

“Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupery


Somewhat confused quote of the day

"No man is truly married until he understands every word his wife is NOT saying."
Unknown


Physiologically aware quote of the day

“Without love, what are we worth? Eighty-nine cents! Eighty-nine cents worth of chemicals walking around lonely.”
Hawkeye, M.A.S.H.


Downright depressing quote of the day

“Love is a grave mental disease.”
Plato


Funniest quotes of the day

“Love is an electric blanket with somebody else in control of the switch.”

Cathy Carlyle

If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular.”
Anon


Vaguely Sexist quote of the day

“Love is the thing that enables a woman to sing while she mops up the floor after her husband has walked across it in his barn boots.”
Hoosier Farmer

"I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life."

Rita Rudner


Slightly inappropriate quote of the day

"It does not matter what you do in the bedroom as long as you do not do it in the street and frighten the horses."

Mrs. Patrick Campbell

May your relationship be filled with the joy God desires for you to experience in Him!
God bless and catch ya soon, Dan

Thursday, February 3, 2011

MESSAGE: CROSS GENERATIONAL LAUNCH (Jan 30 2011)

MESSAGE FROM SUNDAY!!



Hi everyone, I've attached the manuscript from the message spoken at am and pm services about fostering strong Godly relationships within our families. Needless to say the importance of being founded on the Word of God is absolutely pivotal! Let me know what you think (it's very long I know!). God bless, Dan


------After a massive week, as I was preparing for this morning, I couldn’t help but get excited about this current season that we find our New Generations ministry here at New Peninsula.


- As you’ve already heard Urban Summer was a huge success…the joy on the faces of the 50 young people as they served outside themselves will stick with me forever. On the last day a team of 13 people went and served at a widow’s house in Diamond Valley, which was ravaged by bushfires 2 years ago. Helga had lost her husband 22 years ago and somehow managed to escape the fires. She said she went to more than 30 funerals of people she knew personally who lost their lives from this close knit rural community. She lived in an average house and she was just so thankful of what we were doing. I saw 13 kids work and work and Helga just couldn’t stop feeding us!


- I’ll never forget this last week as I witnessed the opposite of the stereotype that teenagers are lazy and inward…that may often be true, but given the opportunity to step up with exceptional Godly attitudes, they impacted people’s lives. I believe that this is a taste of what’s to come! Teenagers will always be teenagers but what we want to see emerge in our youth ministry is a community of disciples who love Jesus and love each other! Wouldn’t that be great!


- Within the youth ministry we’re on the verge of something new and fresh as we continually move towards a new season of intentional focused discipleship, watching over the next few years teenagers not enslaved to a dysfunctional culture but so secure in Jesus that they are walking into this world and making a difference for Jesus and His Kingdom! Wouldn't that be great to see all our families walking this journey together, to see our kids growing into champions in their faith?


When we look into the Bible we discover that kids are blessings from God-Genesis 33:5-Jacob told Esau that his children were a gift that God had graciously given him!


Genesis 48:9-Joseph told his dad that his sons were a gift from God!


Psalm 127:3-Children are a heritage from the Lord and a reward from Him!


- When walking out into foyer for coffee after our 9am service, you nearly get bowled over by all the children racing around! One of our superstar Kingdom Kids leaders mentioned that 30+ kids are graduating from Kinder Kids to Kingdom Kids! Clearly God has blessed us, and I believe we have both the opportunity and the responsibility to build into our kids strong, Godly foundations. This must come through relationships.


- I’m a big fan of Kingdom Kids, and also I’m a big fan of Trish Creely and her team of leaders, however they have 1-1.5 hours per week with your kids to build these foundations! Parents have access to kids that leaders in kids ministries and youth ministries don’t have! We must be clear – it is the parents responsibly and privilege to set the foundations for their kids.


- This morning we’re looking at 3 Biblical foundations to lay in our kids lives that we as parents, and also as ministry leaders, desire to see take root.


The relation of parents to their children…


Foundation 1: Parents must train children.


“Teach a youth about the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6)- Every child has natural bents both good and bad, these are the basic tendencies unique to this child. Left to themselves children will grow up and reflect dysfunction unless we as parents intentionally train up our kids in God!


- You might be surprise to learn that the root word of “train up” in the Hebrew is a word used to describe the palate or the roof of the mouth. It was used to describe the actions of a Hebrew mid-wife who after helping to deliver a baby would dip her finger in a paste made of dates and rub it on the gums of the new baby to create thirst and start the baby’s feeding instinct. (Charles Swindoll. You and Your Child (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1977)


- The parent is in like manner to create a thirst in their child for the right things. What is your favourite food, my guess would be that it is what you grew up enjoying. The Christian parents job is to create such a thirst in our children for the things of God.


- As part of the young families ministry we see that we must be intentional about training our kids up right! To use every opportunity to communicate God’s truth! Driving kids to school (don’t just rely on the family devotion time!)à Last year’s survey that 13% of families do regular devotions…the only way that figure can be a good thing is when our families are doing devotions with their kids at every possible opportunity that they can get!à As parents we need to be intentional about this…and we as a church want to equip and support as much as possible and so this year we’re running parenting courses to help see this emerge, with the intention behind it to learn how can we be intentional in training up our kids.


Foundation 2: Children need loving discipline.


“And fathers, don’t stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).- One of the barriers to disciplining our kids well is anger. It sounds strange but when our kids look at discipline, do they associate it with dad losing his cool or mum raising her voice?! I heard something once about disciplining my kids, that it must be measured, consistent and clear…


Discipline is a sign that parents love their children because they want them to escape death and find life (Proverbs 13:24, 19:18). The command to discipline is given to fathers in Ephesians 6:4 [‘training' is more literally translated ‘discipline'].


- God disciplines those He loves!


- Because discipline is hard, and often not done well, kids go through this life not experiencing the joy of repentance!


Foundation 3: Children need a worthy example.


“…clearly recalling your sincere faith that first lived in your grandmother Lois, then in your mother Eunice, and that I am convinced is in you also” (2 Timothy 1:5).


“Uzziah… did what was right in the Lord’s sight as his father Amaziah had done” (2 Chronicles 26:3-4).à For me the objective of raising my kids is that after 18+ years living in a loving home with Anita and I and seeing our love for God and for each other, would set them onto that same journey. My kids have dreams about politicians, mechanics…occasionally I slip my unfulfilled desires to play cricket for Australia in there, but to be honest I don’t mind where God calls them vocationally…I just want to see them know Him and walk after Him every day.


- The best way that happens is when I do. Kids who observe their parents give lip service to being a disciple of Jesus, who may attend Sunday worship but then live completely different lives during the week, will most likely follow in the same footsteps. But a child who sees mum and dad walk after Jesus faithfully, despite being up and down, will more likely discover who Jesus is and follow Him themselves.


Our kids are precious, they are blessing from God and these foundations are important to their development and growth.


But I also have some Biblical foundations for children towards their parents (that will be unpacked more when I speak this message tonight…pray for me)


The relation of children to their parents… (taken primarily from Ephesians 6:1-3)

Foundation 1: Children are to honor their parents.


“Honor your father and your mother so that you may have a long life in the land that the Lord your God is giving you” (Exodus 20:12).

There is blessing when children honour their parentsHow do we do this practically? One way is that we should be polite and courteous in the way we address them. (e.g. Not calling them on their first name; not speaking in a rude manner)

a) Even though Joseph was the equivalent of a modern-day Prime Minister of Egypt, he bowed down with his face to the ground as he showed humility and respect towards his elderly father:Ge 48:12 ’Then Joseph removed them from Israel’s knees and bowed down with his face to the ground.’b) King Solomon showed great courtesy towards his mother, Bathsheba. Even though he was the newly crowned king, he bowed down to her.1Ki 2:19 ’When Bathsheba went to King Solomon to speak to him for Adonijah, the king stood up to meet her, bowed down to her and sat down on his throne. He had a throne brought for the king¡¦s mother, and she sat down at his right hand.’


Illustration


In Nigeria much respect is given to parents and elders. I have personally witnessed adults going down on the ground to bow to an elderly retired pastor. Also, the ladies always do a curtsy to show respect to an elder.

Foundation 2: Children are to obey their parents.


“Children, obey your parents in the Lord, because this is right” (Ephesians 6:1).


“Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing in the Lord” (Colossians 3:20).


- Practicing submission to those in authority in Australia is not something that comes to us naturally, even at home. Kids think they know everything, but don’t, parents see what’s ahead and desire to steer their kids towards life.à In the original (Greek) text the word which is translated ’obey’ comes from two words, ’hear’ and ’under’. A rigidly literal translation could be to ’hear under’ i.e. ’to listen attentively’. What is in view here is a conscious and deliberate listening, listening so as to really hear. (See Strong’s Greek Dictionary no. 5219).


à If your dealing with a teenager, or defiant young child, building a value within the household of mutual submission is vital. Kids will model what they see being lived out…if mum and dad have modelled mutual submission, sometimes laying down the iron fist of control, then kids may move into it as well.

Foundation 3: Children are to learn from their parents.


“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction, and don’t reject your mother’s teaching” (Proverbs 1:8).

The Bible is a fantastic source of teaching about raising our kids…and so my prayer this morning is that out of this message, and for the rest of 2011, that we turn to the Word


X Do your parents view their relationship with you with joy and gladness?


X Do you make them proud of you?


X Have you said thank you to your mom and dad?


Tuesday, December 7, 2010

POWER OF GOD'S LOVE

“When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit.
Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong.
And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is.
May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully.

Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.”

Ephesians 3:14-19



Where do you find your strength? Where are your resources stored?

Personally after travelling in my own strength and coming to the end of it I’ve discovered that there is soo much more power available in the reality of God’s love, in particular love and care for my kids. My oldest son Jake is an amazing boy with plenty of creative and unique characteristics, however he can (as all growing lads evidence) also be quite trying. One day I came home and found all my tools scattered over our newly tiled floor as Jake was rifling through them trying to find something. Fortunately for him there were only scratches as a result of his exploration (and no chips!). Also fortunate for him my back was still sore after bending over for 2 days laying them! I was soo angry and it took all of my rapidly depleting strength to keep it together!

Gee in those times when we are angry and empty it can be difficult to find the reservoirs of love repeatedly alluded to in Scripture.

For me the telling signs of tiredness and exhaustion are critical words and retreating to my “comfort zones” ie the couch. To go to Gods word and recover strength by waiting on Him is the aim…the reality is that it seems (at times) that this takes more energy than slumming it in those comfort zones. Yet the end result is always the same- emptiness when the show’s finished, emptiness when the bottle’s empty, emptiness when the best that the world has to offer runs dry.

Roots that extend into God’s love is the answer to living out of the overflow. I get the image of a tap that’s turned on and gushing water streams out into a cup…when the cups full the water doesn’t stop! The tap doesn’t turn off it just keeps going and going. God’s love is endless. It’s everlasting, refreshing and filling.

May you find your strength in the eternal source of life – God’s overwhelming and overflowing love!
God bless, Dan


Monday, November 22, 2010

Stuff Christian's Like


Hi guys! Here's part of a blog by website: http://stuffchristianslike.net. It's a bit long but this guy's hilarious and I laughed soo hard when I read this entry! All the people in the office were looking at me. It was weird. This blog really just communicates how he spends time with God in his own unique way! Enjoy! Dan

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Last night, when I came home from work, I sat down at our family computer. When I opened up Firefox, the page it was resting on had a very unexpected title. Here is what my wife had been looking at: “Jalapeno Burn Treatment Tips.”

I love my wife’s cooking, but I want to be honest, that scared me a little about dinner. That was not the most awesome advertisement for what was about to go down on our dinner table. So I asked my wife what happened. Her response? “I got jalapenos in my nose and it burned for a few hours. So I had to snort milk to make it feel better.”

Oh, when you say it that way, that makes perfect sense. Snorting milk, sure, sure, who hasn’t done a bump or a line of some 2% before? Of course! Silly me.

What I love about that whole situation is that we were having company over last night. Not old friends, new friends from work, and yet here was my wife, getting all fusion and experimental with hot peppers. I love it! She’s not afraid to mix it up and try something new, but I am. Especially when it comes to my quiet times.

I think we’ve retired that phrase, like the phrase “Sunday School,” which is apparently reminiscent of some kind of Southern Baptist Torture Chamber. But I still say, “quiet time.” I’m old school like that. And when I do a quiet time, I am wildly inflexible.

Here are the conditions that have to occur perfectly for me to feel like I’ve had a good quiet time:

1. Time of Day

As we’ve said before, God is a morning person and satan is a night owl. I can’t do quiet times at night. I have to do them before work and before the rest of the world wakes up. 6:30AM? That’s perfect. 7:05AM? Horrible, the day is almost over. I can’t do a quiet time that late.

2. Materials

My quiet time regiment is pretty elaborate. I like to read the Bible. Then I journal a little. Then I read a book. Then I journal some more. Then I pray. Then I might listen to some music. There are approximately 27 steps in my plan and it’s as complicated as disarming a bomb. If one step goes awry, if I cut the red wire instead of the blue write, it’s over. I leave the book at home, goodbye quiet time.

3. Location

I used to do my quiet times in my car at work. I would sit in our old Camry for an hour while smokers at work stared at me as if I was some weird guy reading his Bible in the parking lot. Eventually I moved inside to my office. Now that we’ve moved to Nashville, I’m still looking for a good place to do my quiet times. Like a dog turning around in circles over and over again before it sits down, I’m slowly circling Nashville looking for a perfect spot.

4. No disruptions.

When I’m doing a quiet time, my family knows that I am like Superman in his fortress of solitude. Though my kids believe that the perfect time to ask 19 questions of their mother is when she is trying to take a nap, they generally leave me alone when I am doing a devotional.

5. Coffee

Remember in the Bible, when Peter and the gang were sitting on the shores of the Galilee around a campfire? They were all enjoying a cup of warm Judean Joe, just talking about life. Living it! Sipping some coffee and discussing about how to take something “from your head to your heart.” What, that didn’t happen? In my mind it did and that’s why I have a hard time doing a quiet time without a coffee. I’m not even sure I could journal and drink diet Coke at the same time. Journals need coffee and so do quiet times. (Here’s the SCL entry about coffee.)

If even one of these five factors is not perfectly executed, the quality of my quiet time goes down dramatically. The weird thing is that I’m pretty flexible in every other area of my life. I’ll watch an entire movie on my iPhone, turning up the puny volume, squinting to see all the details on that tiny screen. I’ll read other stuff anywhere. I’ll read the back of a shampoo bottle in the middle of a shower just because I want something to look at. I’d sit in a garbage can if it meant I could get tickets to the Vanderbilt U2 show.

But quiet times? I’m wildly inflexible about those.

How about you? How do you do your devotional time?

Monday, November 15, 2010

POWER OF TRANSPARENCY

Sunday afternoon a collection of New Pen families arrived home after a weather affected camping expedition to Koorumburra. Our family is trying really hard to get used to this crazy Victorian weather...on Friday it was steaming hot which erupted into an afternoon of storms (seriously it was very stormy- we were putting up aluminium tent poles with thunder and lightning whizzing around and Bethany literally screaming louder with each thunder clap!), then it rained solid for 36 hours until Sunday when it fined up enough to pack everything up! Our plight wasn't helped by members of the staff team (who will remain anonymous) who jibed via SMS that this weather is more suited to ducks then people. They wont be laughing when I cable-tie everything in their office together :)

On Sunday I came away with the thought that the community God has bought together here at New Peninsula is incredibly powerful. As people talked throughout the weekend (there's not a whole lot else you can do when it's raining nonstop) you overhear stories about sickness and troubles, plans for the future and hopes and aspirations. You hear honest, open and transparent discussion about raising kids and the limitations we face juggling work and finances and deadlines. This is the true expression of Galatians 6:2, "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ." Ultimately the law of Christ is simply love- being available to listen, share, support and affirm each other regularly is an important aspect of love in action, and is incredibly powerful.

As families we sometimes struggle to get to church on time and intact with all faculties (or is that just our family??). Then, when we're asked afterwards in a 5 minute fellowship time how we're going, it's just sometimes easier to forget about all the things we face weekly, put on the brace face and grimace out the answer, "Yep we're all going well thanks, and you?" I believe that we as families must blast through fears of rejection, shame and even the fear of projecting our burdens onto others, in order to continue that open and honest sharing about how we're really travelling.
Engaging in God's family is not the Coles checkout relationship where we answer the same questions the same polite way, "Fine thanks, and you?" We must take the risk to actually be vulnerable when asked how we're travelling. Let's be soft towards one another "...and let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." Hebrews 10:24-25
God bless! Dan